OK, so you came here probably expecting to see the same type of credentials and background list of information so that you can be confident I'm for real as well as what I have to offer will REALLY make a difference in YOUR life OR those whom you hire me to speak for...

I'm taking a different tack here and will give you some of the "real story". The mess that I've lived through and the blessings that I've received all along the way that gives me something to share it with everyone I've come in contact with. The path to a greater freedom.

It's not that I feel responsible for everyone. I've met those - "It's my duty to save/change the world" types. That's not me. I do believe that I am to share the secrets, the tools and the gifts that I've acquired along the way and show you how they can get you to the top of your mountain.

If you're interested in details only - that's ok too - just click here and you can read a short two paragraph bio.

For the rest of you - feel free to keep reading.

As an individual - which includes being a person, a mom, a wife, a woman, a daughter, a business owner, a speaker, a writer, a coach and a performer (and I'm sure that you have your own that you can simply add to this list) I have made enough mistakes to really learn the insides meaning of the phrase - "You may want to consider ... BEFORE you do..." and what it really means in terms of success.

On the personal front, I was a bit disconnected from people. I wanted friends, relationships and more to come "to" me but I didn't let them "in". I had created a wall around myself as a result of my own choices and decisions when my father passed away shortly after my 4th birthday. Then a year later when my mom attempted suicide I really put the lid on getting close to people. I mean, if they were all going to die or leave anyway, why let them in?

It's been in the last 3 years though using the formula, that I've really been able to see how I've checked out and played the part of the "good" girl, the friendly person, screaming for connections inside and not willing to connect at the same time. Seeing how I felt like I let my father down when I asked for a "new daddy" even though I new there was a problem there (my first step-father was a chronic schizophrenic even though my mother and he stayed married for 7 years).

Even my baby sister died in a car accident just before her 16th birthday with her funeral being on Valentine's Day - and the day my first son was born.

In business I've explored a number of network marketing business over the last 30 years, had several of my own ideas that conceptually were sound but the execution or marketing had left somewhat to be desired. I did fine working for others and creating concepts, building their business', but I didn't seem to make the same connection for my own business. It wasn't until I made the connection to my parents situation where a story was written by a local newspaper that spoke of a young, blind, husband and father who took his blind goods out in a little red wagon and struggled to provide for his young family.

Ultimately the connection was on several levels - 1) To be in business for yourself MUST be a struggle and not profitable, 2) Being in business for yourself ultimately ends in death and 3) If I'm successful in business - it's dishonoring to my parents because how dare I do better than they.

Such are the stories (programs) that we tend to ignore but choose to let run our life.

As a writer - that story was a little more convoluted. I almost hated English going through school and never really excelled in the subject. As an adult I would write poems and even went into business writing personalized singing telegrams for a while doing a very good job. When anyone referred to me as a writer though I would bristle and and would say "no I'm not".

I remember one time having a very dear friend say to me "I never knew you were such a gifted writer." and I literally broke down in tears not even knowing why.

In the last couple of years I discovered my predisposition to hating writing had to do with the beliefs and decisions concerning "those who wrote". Doctors and nurses wrote things and they wrote about people that were ill. They didn't do any good either because when they write - people die. It doesn't matter that it isn't "truth". What matters is that it's what I believed. Bad people write and when they do, people die.

Today it doesn't affect me that way and I really enjoy writing.

There is a lot more - some in the book Handbook for Freedom and a considerable amount on the website Sexual Freedom For The Married Woman where it's all about the freedom to enjoy an intimate relationship with our spouse - one of the freedom's that I believe is a blessing - but one that is often blocked by these same kind of stories. I know it was that case for me.

If you'd like to find out how Freedom's Formula can assist you in connecting with yourself, your family, your passion in life and so much more write us at info@yourfreedomguide.com. May you find the freedom to uncover your roadblocks and enjoy the view from the top of YOUR mountain.