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Recently I was speaking with an attorney; talking about their business
and what they wanted from their networking. We discussed the idea of
focusing their initial dialog on their preferred aspect of their business
and an interesting thing happened. When I asked what really set them
on fire - what passion fanned the flame – they answered, "It's
not Law."
Understand this: this person is successful by all standards as an attorney.
They have a wonderful, engaging personality and I would trust them to
handle any case. They nearly froze when I asked that question. As the
conversation went on, we discussed the fact that many people hold the
idea that one cannot be financially successful doing what one is passionate
about.
As I see it, that's the one true way to really be successful – to
live a full life; to really make a contribution to the world.
To make money there is some transfer of energy.
It can be either goods or services, yet, although I have both to offer,
the concept that I’ve struggled with in the past is that it’s
about the selling. I’ve been taught that I need to be able to close
the “sale;” I need to be able to move in that arena in order
to create abundant wealth. If nothing else I’m selling myself,
my concept.
As much as I've hated selling in the past I have discovered a different
way of thinking about it.
IF I believe in what I do, I'm driven by my passion and my passion is the driving
energy behind what I do…
IF I know that what I bring to the banqueting table is honorable, viable,
and beneficial to human kind and
IF I know that I am on the right path…
THEN I am morally bound to pursue that passion
AND I am bound by that same moral code - that same integrity - to be
sure that everyone understands what I have to offer and give them every
possibility to "get it."
That means that it isn't about the selling at all. It's about using
every resource I have to speak the language of my clients – using
skills that I may or may not have developed yet to be sure that I've
exhausted every avenue in order to educate them about the benefits and
options my company brings to them.
An recent article in The Kentucky Kernel speaks about the decline in
job satisfaction among employees between 35 and 44 and the power of passion
to create positive results. Another article in CNN quotes Explorer Robert
Ballard, who has spent most of his adult life exploring the ocean floor
and combing the deep-sea for lost shipwrecks (notably he was the discoverer
of the Shipwreck Titanic), as saying, "Follow your passion. Chase
your passion whatever it is. If you don't do what you love you'll never
get where you want to be."
Following a passion, believing in your dreams, has been a successful
model for a multitude of individuals: Walt Disney, Abraham Lincoln, Benjamin
Franklin, Oprah Winfrey, and Bill Gates, just to name a few.
When we fan the flame on our passion, move toward our freedom, doors
open. Opportunities are created out of what seems to be thin air.
If you find that your activities are neither in line with nor support
your passion, take some time today and let yourself dream. Ask yourself
what your world would look like if you were doing what you were wildly
passionate about. What would it look like if you were as successful as
you knew you could be? Give yourself the gift over the holidays; imagine
how you might achieve a passionate life and know that it all starts with
being who you really are from the inside out.
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speakers!" She is the creator of Freedom's Formula and author of
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